第13讲:婚姻和家庭
(GSLTW pages 591-603)
OPENING PRAYER 课前祷告
HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT REVIEW 作业复习
A. Marriage is _______ institution
婚姻是__________制度。
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In the Garden of Eden Gen 1:27-28; 2:18-24
在伊甸园里。创1:27-28; 2:18-24
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Also after the fall into sin Mt 19:4-6
也在人犯罪堕落之后。太19:4-6
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The ____Commandment guards marriage 1 Cor 7:2-9; Heb 13:4
___________诫命守卫婚姻。林前7:2-9; 来 13:4
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The Bible praises marriage and _______ honored it Ps 127 & 128; Jn 2:1-11
圣经称赞婚姻并且___________敬重它。诗127 & 128; 约 2:1-11
B. Marriage is not a _______ 1 Tim 4:5; Eph 5:32
婚姻不是一个___________。提前4:5; 弗 5:32
C. Celibacy 独身
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Celibacy is not commanded by God 1 Cor 7:1,8,38,40; 26-29
独身不是神的命令。林前:1,8,38,40; 26-29
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Not all people have the gift to remain _______ Mt 19:11-12; 1 Cor 7:2-5; 1 Tim 5:14; Gen 2:18
不是所有人都有______________的恩赐。太19:11-12; 林前 7:2-5; 提前 5:14; 创 2:18
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It is wrong to _______ marriage 1 Tim 4:1-3; 3:2,4; 1 Cor 9:5; 1 Tim 3:2
___________婚姻是错误的。提前4:1-3; 3:2,4; 林前9:5; 提前 3:2
D. Polygamy 多配偶
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Polygamy is _______ by Scripture Mt 19:4-6; Lev 18:18; Deut 21:15-17; Mt 19:8
多配偶被圣经 ________ 。太19:4-6; 利 18:18; 申 21:15-17;太 19:8
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The _______ of a spouse ends a marriage Rom 7:2-3; 1 Cor 7:39
配偶的________是一个婚姻的结束。罗7:2-3; 林前7:39
E. Prohibited Marriages 被禁止的婚姻
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There is to be no marriage for those related by _______ (in the first or second degree) or by _______ . Lev 18:6-18, 24-25 (God punished the heathen for this); 20:11-21; Deut 27:20-23
有_____________(一级或二级关系)或者___________联系的人不该有婚姻。利18:6-18, 24-25;(神因此惩罚了异教徒);20:11-21; 申 27:20-23
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Gentiles do this but sense these things ought not to be 1 Cor 5:1
外邦人这样行,但他们感觉不应该。林前5:1
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We must not marry those the _______ forbids us to marry 1 Peter 2:13
我们必须禁止嫁娶那些_________禁止我们嫁娶的。彼前2:13
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We may not marry a person who is unlawfully _______ Mt 5:32; 19:9
我们不可以嫁娶一个不合法的__________人。太5:32; 19:9
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We are warned not to marry an _______ . Deut 7:3-4; 1 Cor 7:16
我们被警告不可嫁娶一个___________。申7:3-4; 林前 7:16
F. Definition of Marriage 婚姻的定义
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Determined by the laws of the _______
由___________的法律决定。
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As a divine institution Mt 19:4-6
是一个神圣的制度。太19:4-6
a. Mutual _______ Gen 22:58; 1 Cor 7:12-13; Deut 22:23-24; Mt 1:1-20
相互的________。创22:58; 林前 7:12-13; 申 22:23-24; 太 1:1-20
b. A lifelong union Rom 7:2-3; 1 Cor 7:39
一生之久的联合。罗7:2-3; 林前 7:39
c. For legitimate sexual intercourse 1 Cor 7:2-5
为合法的性交。林前7:2-5
d. For the procreation of children and the avoidance of _______ Gen 1:28
为繁衍后代,避免____________。创1:28
e. For mutual care and assistance
为相互的照顾和帮助。
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What is lawful and pure in marriage is a _______ outside of wedlock. Heb 13:4
婚姻中的合法和纯洁在婚姻以外是一个______________。来13:4
G. Engagement 婚约/订婚
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It is by their _______ that God joins a man and a woman together. Mt 19:6; Deut 22:23-24
通过他们的___________,神将一个男人和一个女人联合在一起。太19:6;申22:23-24
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Engagement should be public and should seek the consent of the _______ . Gen 24; Deut 7:3; 1 Cor 7:38
订婚应该公开,而且应该取得___________的赞同。创24; 申 7:3; 林前 7:38
H. The Relationship Between Husband and Wife 夫妻关系
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Both are heirs of _______ Gal 3:28; 1 Pet 3:7
二者都是______的后裔。加:28; 彼前 3:7
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Responsibilities of wives
妻子的责任
a. Woman was created for man. 1 Cor 11:9; Gen 2:18; 3:16
女人为男人而造。林前1:9; 创 2:18; 3:16
b. Wives should _______ their husbands in confidence and love. Eph 5:22-23, 33; 1 Pet 3:5-6
妻子应该在爱与信任中____________他们的丈夫。弗5:22-23, 33; 彼前 3:5-6
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Responsibilities of husbands
丈夫的责任
a. The husband is the head of the wife. Eph 5:23
丈夫是妻子的头。弗5:23
b. Husbands should _______ their wives Col 3:19; 1 Pet 3:7; Eph 5:25,28,29
丈夫应该____________ 他们的妻子。西3:19; 彼前 3:7; 弗 5:25,28,29
I. Marriage is a Lifelong Union Mt 19:6; Rom 7:1-2; Mt 22:30
婚姻是一生之久的联合。太:6; 罗7:1-2; 太 22:30
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Divorce 离婚
a. _______ Mt 5:32; 19:9
________。太5:32; 19:9
b. _______ 1 Cor 7:15; Rom 7:2-3
___________林前7:15; 罗 7:2-3
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Marriage of those who have been divorced
离婚者的婚姻
a. The _______ person is free to marry again Mt 19:9
__________的人有自由再结婚。太19:9
b. The _______ party may not marry again as long as the innocent party remains unmarried.
只要无辜的一方还没有结婚, __________的一方不可以再结婚。
作业
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For what three reasons did God institute marriage? Ge 2:18-23; 1:28; Heb 13:4
神设立婚姻的三个原因是什么?创 2:18-23; 1:28; 来 13:4
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Identify two principles which will guide a couple in the matter of birth control.
说出可以指导夫妻计划生育的两个原则。
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What does the Roman Catholic Church teach with regard to birth control?
罗马天主教会对计划生育的教导是什么?
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What establishes marriage?
建立婚姻的是什么?
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Is engagement tantamount to marriage?
订婚等同于结婚吗?
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Comment:
评论
a. Only God has the right to end a marriage.
只有神有权利结束一个婚姻。
b. Marriage is an institution for this life only.
婚姻只是今生的设立。
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What are the practical problems couples face:
夫妻之间面对的实际问题有哪些?
a. when one of the spouses is an unbeliever.
当配偶的一方是非信徒。
b. in inter-faith marriages.
不同信仰间的婚姻。
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What will we look for in a prospective spouse?
我们希望未来的配偶是什么样的?
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Identify the responsibilities God gives to:
说出神给他们的责任:
a. husbands.丈夫
b. wives 妻子
c. children 孩子
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Comment on:
评论:
a. sexual relations outside of marriage
婚姻之外的性关系。
b. adultery
通奸
c. incest
乱伦/近亲通婚
d. homosexuality
同性恋
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Which two sins break the marriage bond?
哪两个罪打破婚姻的连接?
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With regard to spousal abuse, comment on “marriage is a nurturing union.”
在虐待配偶方面,评论“婚姻是一个需要培养的联合”。
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If one partner breaks the marriage bond, what options are available to the wronged party?
如果一方打破了婚姻的联合,被委曲的一方有哪些选择?
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Comment: It takes two to make a marriage and it takes two to break a marriage.
评论:婚姻需要双方来建立,也需要双方才能打破。
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Comment: Marriage is a 50/50 proposition.
评论:婚姻是一个对半分的命题。
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What options are available to a spouse who has broken a marriage vow?
如果一个配偶违背了婚姻誓言,他还有哪些选择?